At dinner with friends recently, someone asked me how to attract more money when they are already doing everything right, feel they deserve it, and don’t know what’s wrong. They feel stuck.
I’ve written about this subject a lot, but I could tell these people were holding my feet in the fire and wanted more. So I gave them the five steps to attract more money:
1) You or someone you hire has to have an eye on money
Money doesn’t want to be pursued directly, but indirectly. You have to follow your dreamsand keep a watchful eye on whether you are making money or not. The old catch phrase, “Do what you love and the money will follow” should actually be, “Do what you love and sell it.” That’s why Walt Disney said, “I want to make money from my movies so I can keep making movies.” Yes, follow your passion, but also watch what money is doing around it.
2) Money needs to be appreciated
Most people see money as a necessary evil. They wouldn’t even want it if they didn’t need it to survive. That’s a poor attitude. Money can sense you don’t appreciate it. You need to learn, as Arnold Patent says, “The sole purpose of money is to express appreciation.” Start showing your gratitude for money and you’ll begin to attract more of it to be grateful for.
3) Money is a tool that can be leveraged to attract more money
Most people don’t know this. When you get money, give it, save it, spend it, and invest it. A friend in Australia once taught me that he has learned to make money from his money, and then to make money from the money he made from that money. (Think about it.) He means to attract money from doing what you love, then invest it in some way, and then invest the money you make from your investment.
4) Give it away
This step is part of number three above, but deserves its own explanation and focus. Most people hold on to money. They are afraid of losing what they have, or needing it for something they fear will happen. Again, lousy attitude. It means you’re really believing in scarcity. Even though every prosperity teacher says to give money away, you probably don’t. Right? (Be honest.) I advise people to give a portion of their income (usually ten percent) to wherever they receive spiritual nourishment. That could be a church, an author, a speaker, a bus driver, a waitress, or anyone or anything that inspired you. The key is inspiration. Don’t give out of obligation, give out of inspiration.
5) Clear your beliefs around money
This one is THE most important step, because if you have unconscious beliefs about money, you will filter out the opportunities around you to attract more money. You won’t see them! Money is everywhere. Trillions of dollars are floating right by you. But you won’t see any of it with belief blinders on.
Money is a wonderful tool. With it you can help yourself, family and friends, and causes you believe in. Make peace with money and begin to enjoy life on a whole new level.
As long as the Law of Attraction has only the ‘DON’T want’ script, it is restricted to orchestrating that script over and over. We must give the Law of Attraction some NEW MATERIAL to work with.
What do you really want in your relationships? Security? Affection? Loyalty? Companionship? Communication? What?
Do you wonder why you keep attracting certain types of people into your life?
Are you tired of feeling disappointed in ‘love?
Have you ever been ‘blind-sided’ by someone you thought was a friend?
Do you feel desperate to find that special person you can live with forever?
Here are three steps that can help you in attracting more satisfying relationships:
Step 1: Make a thorough list of all the characteristics or scenarios of your past relationships that you DON’T WANT to experience again. You can use the T-toolTM for this exercise or just take a fresh sheet of paper and draw a large ‘T’ on it.
Label the left hand column: ‘I Don’t want’ and the right-hand column, ‘I Do Want’.
Ask your Inner Self to remind you of past events that you do NOT want repeated.
Write a few words about each event that express the essence of that event. Step 2: Examine each item on the ‘I DON’T want …” side and ask yourself this question: “If I don’t want this, what DO I want?”
One major reason why we keep attracting the same unsatisfactory relationships is because we fail to use the contrast contained in those negative events to get clear about what we DO want.
Step 3: Write a Script about how you DO want your relationships to be:
As long as the Law of Attraction has only the ‘DON’T want’ Script, it is restricted to orchestrating that Script over and over. We must give the Law of Attraction some NEW MATERIAL to work with.
Scripting accesses all four parts of the brain.
The left brain which deals with words and logic;
The right brain which understands patterns and symbols ;
The mid-brain which experiences emotions; and
The brain stem which registers physical stimulation .
When we write a Script, starting with a phrase such as: “If I had my way…”, and use our imagination about that which feels good to us, we are accessing our right and mid-brain. A thought or feeling comes and we translate it into words (using the left brain) that symbolize the thought or feeling (right brain again). Writing the Script engages the body, which registers in the brain stem.
When all four parts of the brain are engaged, a powerful message is delivered to the Universe.
I like to end my Scripts with the phrase, “And do this in ways that are for my highest good and the highest good of everyone involved.” This is a phrase that helps me let go of ‘HOW” this will all happen, and allows the Law of Attraction to bring it about in the very best possible way.
Remember, the Law of Attraction brings us precisely what we vibrate. So if we want to experience relationships that are more satisfying, then we must change our dominant vibration to match the experiences we WANT to have.
What was the last song you listened to? There is a reason you were so drawn to listen to it. It might have put you in a great mood or eased your worry. It might have brought back memories from days gone
Understanding the effects music can have on your mind can help you make the conscious decision to listen to music a part of your daily life for its incredibly beneficial effects!
What Can Music Do for You?
Listening to music can help you remember
your first kiss. It can motivate you to keep on going. It can calm you down after a long, hard day. There are so many wonderful things music can do for you! It’s absolutely fascinating to understood why it has such an impact – and what you need to be doing to take advantage of that fact.
How Does Music Affect Our Body and Brain?
Music appears to be processed in the right hemisphere of the brain. The way we experience music also affects our nervous system.
There are different neurons that respond according to what kind of music is playing. Music can effect hormones, encourage the production of cortisol, testosterone, and oxytocin. Music can even trigger a release of endorphins.
Beyond the biology and the actual responses of your body, there are definite responses of the mind as well. You’re aware of how you feel when you listen to music, but how do you know that it’s actually having any sort of effect on you? There is scientific evidence of the way it can affect your mind! It’s clearly more than
just a suspicion – it’s fact!
The most famous experiment related to this is probably the one that was performed at the University of California at Irvine. College students were assigned to three different groups. The first group listened to Mozart’s sonata for Two Pianos in D Major. The second group listened to a relaxation tape. The third
group listened to nothing at all.
After listening, they took a Stanford-Beinet reasoning test. The results were clear – those who had listened to Mozart had improved scores!
Music Can Improve Memory
Therefore, it’s thought that music has the most effect on the part of the brain that deals with memory. Unfortunately, the effects were not found to be long-lasting. Still, there is nothing wrong with getting a consistent music boost to improve your memory, mood, and sense of well-being over all!
Interestingly enough, music even seems to have a positive effect on the memories of those who are suffering from Alzheimer’s. In some cases, music can help these people remember things and events they had long forgotten. This is an amazing gift for many Alzheimer’s patients!
Why Does This Work?
You might be wondering why this works the way it does. Dr. Alfred A Tomatis theorized that it’s because music (specifically that of Mozart) helps to retrain the brain, in a sense. The different frequencies can help to ‘exercise’ the brain and provide great benefits.
Many people use music to achieve different states of mind as well. Playing a cheerful song at the end of a long day can go a long way toward improving your mood. Playing mellowing music can help you get to sleep at night. Playing upbeat music can help you get into the right mood to go out and have fun with your friends.
Classical music is the most beloved among those who subscribe to musical therapy. It has a variety of positive uses, including increasing focus, and, as we discussed above, memory.
It’s all well and good to understand that music can have amazing effects on your life. However, it’s important to start making a conscious effort to include music every day. There are specific types of music that can help you achieve whatever state you might need to be in. You can become more creative, enter into a meditative state, relax – whatever you want!
The science is there, and you’ve seen it yourself. It doesn’t matter how old you are, where you are in your life right now, or what you want to achieve, the power of music can help you get there.
Long Term Effects
Many musical therapy experts recommend making music a part of your daily life, because its effects can improve with time. There is evidence that, over time, your language skills, creativity, happiness, and more, can improve with regular musical therapy.
There are even some incredible effects that can come along with playing a musical instrument, if you’re inclined to do that!
Whether you’re listening to music or playing it, you can consider it to be like exercise for the brain — only, much more pleasant! It will have great benefits right away and the benefits will only increase over time.
Sure, you might listen to music already, you might even find that you gravitate toward it. However, by seeking out specific types of music, you can see more desirable effects. By consistently seeking out the right kind of music, you can see incredible effects over time.
The great thing about this is that you can get started today. Music isn’t something that will take up your time — it’s something you can focus on or just have in the background. Having calming music playing more consistently will completely change your life for the better. Mind music is one of the easiest changes you can make for positive effects in your life!
The effects of music on the mind are absolutely incredible. Whether you listen to music for meditation, relaxing sounds, Mozart music, or something else altogether, there is something out there for you. There is a reason so many experts in the world practice and recommend music therapy — it’s because it is something
you truly can’t go wrong with.
Do what you can to start investigating its effects on your own life today. The music of Mozart is a great place to start. There are other options available, depending on what your goals are. Soon, you’ll start to gain an even deeper appreciation for all of the wonderful things music can bring into your life.
The universe you live in works very much like a popular restaurant. You go in, you decide what you want, you order it, you receive it, and you digest it.
Unfortunately, a lot of people don’t seem to know how to order. Some are downright inept at it. They walk into this restaurant, behave like complete idiots, and they end up hungry and disappointed. Then they complain about the restaurant and post negative reviews online, despite the fact that the restaurant has received rave reviews from the most experienced food critics.
The Universal Restaurant
I can’t tell you how many times I encounter people who set goals like, “I want a romantic partner,” or “I want a stable job that pays more money,” or “I want to lose weight.” I’ve heard enough of this drivel to last a lifetime. It’s reached the point where I may start carrying around a squirt gun and shoot people in the eye when they say stuff like this.
Those are crap goals. Don’t waste your time on them. And definitely don’t say them within earshot of me.
Setting such goals is the equivalent of walking into a restaurant and proclaiming, “I’m hungry. I want some food.”
First, people will look at you like you’re an idiot. They’re only doing that because you are.
Second, you won’t get fed.
If you’re lucky, someone might hand you a menu and ask you what you’d like to order. You can order off the menu, or you can concoct something creative, but either way you have to be specific. If you stand there asking for food, you’ll remain hungry.
Is this happening in your life right now? Are you standing at the Universal Restaurant, waiting for your desires to manifest, and receiving only static in response? Might the reason be that the wait staff can’t figure out what the heck you’re actually trying to order?
The Universe is extremely adept at fulfilling your desires — but only if you have the wherewithal to decide and order what you want. If you can’t do that — and it matters not what excuses you have — you will remain hungry.
Sometimes the universe will take a stab at bringing you what you ask for. Then you reject it because, although it’s what you asked for (such as a generic “romantic partner”), it isn’t what you actually want. Then maybe the universe tries a few more times, and you continue to send back whatever it brings you. So eventually it gives up, concluding that you’re an unreasonable customer and that it’s better off spending its time and energy serving the patrons who know how to place an order properly. It says, “Ok, we’re done for now. Call me back to your table when you’ve figured out what you actually want.”
How to Order
When you set goals and intentions, place an order. Don’t ask, “Please can I…?” Simply order, much like you would in a restaurant. Say, “I’ll have the …” Then expect to receive what you order.
Don’t be timid or cowardly or uncertain. Just state your order, and expect to get it. If you screw this up, no soup for you.
Take as much time as you want to decide what to order, but when you place your order, accept what you ordered, and know that you’re going to receive it. You may have some buyer’s remorse if it’s not as good as you hoped, but that’s okay. Receive it anyway. There will always be other meals, other orders. Not everything you receive will taste like ambrosia.
Be specific in asking for what you want.
Don’t ask for more money. If you want $50K cash, then order $50K cash. Don’t ask for it. Order it.
Don’t ask for a better job. If you want to be a fashion blogger who travels around the world and gets free invites to major fashion shows and has 500,000 monthly readers, then order that.
Don’t ask for a romantic partner. If you want a geeky, vegan, bisexual, happily jobless girlfriend who gives amazing blow jobs and loves to travel, then order that. Order it loudly enough so your waiter can hear you, and people at nearby tables will say, “I didn’t know that was on the menu. I’ll have one of those too… with a twist of lemon.”
One of the best ways to get what you actually want is to take your best guess, and order it. When you get what you asked for, it may not be quite right. That contrast between what you received and how you feel about it will give you a better sense of what you actually do want. Then you can make a better guess and take another stab at placing an order.
As you repeat this process, you’ll gradually hone in on what you actually desire most at a very deep level. And then you’ll get a chance to receive and experience it fully.
Realize that this is an iterative process. Don’t be a perfectionist. That’s like sitting in a restaurant for hours, trying to decide what you want, while impatient waiters periodically refill your water glass and pressure you to order something. It’s just a meal, so make a decision, get fed, and get out. Even if it turns out to be less than you hoped for, there will be plenty of other meals. The occasional bad meal is inevitable.
How to Be an Idiot Who Can’t Order at a Restaurant
What happens if you change your order before you receive it? Same thing that happens in a real restaurant. What would happen if you grabbed the waiter and changed your order before it arrived? No problem, but you’ll have to wait even longer because the waiter has to cancel the original order and then submit the new one. And if you keep doing that over and over, you’ll piss off the waiter and will never receive a meal. Have you been doing something like that in real life? Blue… no red… no blue! Ahhhh!
What happens if you order something, and then when you get it, you don’t like it? You can eat it anyway, or you can send it back. Either way, there will be other meals. You can always order again. Learn from the experience, and do your best to make a more intelligent choice next time. You may need to sample a few items from the menu to figure out what you like and don’t like. Your first order at any new restaurant may very well be your worst experience there.
What happens if you complain about the way the system works? It’s not fair! I can’t figure out what I want! I keep going back and forth between two possibilities! Stop pressuring me! You’re free to do that, but the system will process you like an idiot. Again, that’s only because you are.
If you rail against the system, it’s not going to work for you. If you can’t follow the simple rules, the system will process you like an idiot customer till you figure it out.
Here are the rules: Decide what you want, order it, receive it, and digest it. It’s not rocket science. Don’t make it complicated. It’s easier to follow the rules than it is to break them. Even a child can do it.
Despite the obvious drawbacks, you’re still free to behave like an idiot customer whenever you choose. You’re free to make a vague request. You’re free to change your mind every 5 minutes. You’re free to reject your order after it arrives. But of course all of those actions have consequences. If you behave stupidly, you’ll get stupid results.
Technically speaking, this isn’t a problem. The Universal Restaurant is robust enough to handle people like you. It will process you without prejudice. However, you won’t have a very good experience, and in the end you’ll be disappointed with the food and/or service. Other members of your party will also be disappointed, either with the restaurant or with you personally. No one at your table will seem to be having a good time unless you order properly. If you screw it up, you’ll ruin everyone’s evening.
This restaurant, however, is perfectly capable of preparing the most amazing gourmet meals you could ever fancy. You just have to order properly. Be specific. Be clear, direct, and confident. Be audible. And don’t keep changing your mind after you’ve placed your order.
When you receive your order, accept it with gratitude. Smell it. Taste it. Savor each delicious bite. Share it with others at your table if they’d like a taste, and taste some of their food too. It won’t be perfect, but it’s better than going hungry. Learn from the experience, and allow it to inform your future ordering decisions. Eventually you’ll become a master connoisseur of the Universal Restaurant.
Work with the rules of the Universal Restaurant to enjoy the best meals of your life. Don’t rail against the system. Don’t be a clueless customer. And don’t post negative reviews about it online.
Note: The Universal Restaurant is not to be confused with The Restaurant at the End of the Universe. I know that’s what you were thinking.
Once your make a decision to improve your life, start think positively, or give the law of attraction a try, you will notice that you run into a few obstacles.
Granted, the hardest are the limitations you have set in your own mind, sometimes you will find situations with other people will test your resolve.
I strive to have a positive attitude in every situation, and to be kind to people who are mean. Everyone has a bad day, you don’t know why someone is in a bad mood.
It usually has nothing to do with you personally, but what is going on in their life or they may just be frustrated with the situation at hand. Rarely is someone truly upset with you even though they may direct their grumpiness in your direction.
The ultimate test the universe can give you is to see how you react to a bad situation. Do you control your emotions and keep your power, or do you let other people steal your power just because they are in a bad mood?
I’m sure you have heard the saying “Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” and “Your attitude determines your altitude”.
How you decide to react can make the difference between keeping your power, or letting other people steal your power and your joy.
One busy day working the cash register in a gas station, I was getting a lot of large bills and was running out of $5′s and $10′s.
The manager had already gone for the day so I was on my own when it came to change. I made a sign out of a paper bag asking for small bills, but just as fast as I would get them, they would go back out again.
An older woman wants to buy a sports drink. “Mam, these are on sale 2 for three dollars, if you’d like to get another one.” I tell her. She gruffly replies “No, I just want this one.”
I tell her “Alright, that will be $2.15″… “No! It should be $1.50″ She exclaims in a huff. “I’m sorry, you have to buy two of them to get them at that price.” She huffs off towards the cooler to get another one, not saying a word. I apologize to the people in line behind her and let them know it would be just a minute before I could wait on them.
She comes back and throws the other sports drink on the counter.
“That will be $3.25″ “CAN I HAVE A BAG?” She yells. “Absolutly!” I smile and put her drinks in a bag while she pulls out 3 dollar bills and a quarter and hands them to me. “Oh, can I get change for this $20?” she asks.
“I would love to, however I am low on $5′s and $10′s today…. it’s..” “WELL! Then give ME back MY 3 dollars and take this twenty INSTEAD!” She says with puckered lips.
I had my drawer open at this point and realize that I am down to my last $5 and $10 dollar bill.
I had a few choices at this moment — I could refuse her sale, take the drinks and give her back all her money (we are allowed to refuse rude or disruptive people).. I was strongly tempted to do this.
I also noticed that I had a big stack of $1 bills.. so I could give her back $17 in ones.. I started laughing as I looked at them.
At that point I was very amused. There was no way this grumpy woman was going to steal my power! I had the choice to be rude back, to be a smart ass, refuse her service.. or I could respond with kindness and joy!
So with a big smile on my face I give her my last $10, $5 and two $1. She looks at me out the corner of her eye, counts the money, grabs her drinks.
I tell her “Thank you, enjoy your drinks!” She huffs off with her lips puckered as if she just ate a lemon. I, on the other hand had a big smile on my face for the rest of the day.
I refused to let anyone still my power! I reacted to the situation with happiness. I treated her like I wanted to be treated if I was having a bad day and being a grump.
It’s a powerful word that means many different things to many different people.
For some, they just think of Hollywood movies, and Zombie-like trances. For others, they think of famed applications, such as stopping smoking or losing weight.
But hypnosis has been accredited by the American Medical Association for use in hospitals since 1958, and it’s strength and popularity continue to grow. Not a week goes by without some new research study showing the effectiveness of hypnosis.
In this article, we’ve teamed up with the Hypnosis Live superstore to look at the most common myths surrounding hypnosis — and the truth behind them.
We think you’ll find it very interesting! So, let’s dive straight in…
“Hypnotists have special powers!”
Afraid not — although all those old Hollywood movies would have us believe otherwise.
Hypnotists don’t have any special powers. They simply have the knowledge and experience to help induce a deep state of relaxation, and deliver the right kind of message to your inner mind.
Effectively, all hypnosis is *self-hypnosis*. You’re the one doing the work and changing your thought patterns. The hypnotist (or the hypnosis recording) simply facilitates the process.
“Hypnosis only works on weak-minded people!”
Wrong way round! It’s actually those who can focus and have a more creative mind that get the best results with hypnosis.
That’s because all hypnosis is self-hypnosis. You’re not being influenced by someone else. You’re actually guiding yourself. And those people with greater focus and imagination get much more powerful results with that process.
In an article for Psychology Today, Dr Deirdre Barrett, Ph.D wrote an article titled ‘The Power of Hypnosis’, in which she noted that “modern research shows that hypnotizability is correlated with intelligence, concentration and focus.”
“During hypnosis, you can be made to do things against your will!”
Totally untrue. Your personal values and beliefs always remain intact during hypnosis.
With hypnosis, you simply allow yourself to enter into a state of heightened suggestion. At that point, you can ‘reprogram’ your thinking patterns. You’re the active participant in this. If a hypnotist tries to tell you to do something that goes against your values, you’ll naturally reject it and jump out of your trance-like state.
“You can get stuck in a hypnotic state and never wake up!”
This one is getting so old now, it’s almost funny. You can absolutely never get stuck in any form of ‘hypnotic trance’!
There has never ever been a single recorded case of this. The state you reach during hypnosis is similar to that of day-dreaming. You’re just super-relaxed. You can ‘wake up’ again whenever you want to. Usually that will be at the end of the session, when guided to do so by the hypnotherapist.
“Hypnosis is an occult! And it’s against my religion!”
Hypnosis is not an occult, and doesn’t go against any religion at all. Hypnosis is simply a safe and natural method of relaxing your mind, and feeding yourself with positive affirmations and ideas.
Hypnosis is a branch of psychology, and has absolutely zero connection to any religion whatsoever.
“Hypnosis isn’t really effective at changing anything!”
Another myth. There have been countless studies that have proved the efficacy of hypnosis in a wide variety of settings.
Hypnosis was approved for medical use in 1958 by the American Medical Association, and almost all modern hospitals now utilize hypnosis to some degree. It has a reported 90.6% success rate in stopping smoking. (The University of Washington School of Medicine.) It was found to be over 30 times more effective than regular weight loss routines. (Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology.) It was found to bring ‘immediate’ and ‘significant relief’ to 75% of women who used it to assist with their IBS symptoms, with 80% still reporting improvement up to six years later. (American Psychological Association.)
It has also been proven to dramatically reduce migraines, speed up recovery from surgery, reduce the intensity of pain, help overcome drug addiction, relieve chemotherapy symptoms, and lower blood pressure. It’s been found to be as effective as Ritalin in treating ADD in children. And those are just a few of the actual medical applications!
Hypnosis has also been used by thousands worldwide to improve confidence and self-esteem, release addictions, let go of fears and phobias, lose weight, stop smoking, improve brainpower, and much more.
A research study by American Health Magazine found hypnosis to be more effective than other forms of self-change, such as behaviour therapy and psychoanalysis. It reports that hypnosis had a 93% success rate after just 6 sessions — compared to behaviour therapy with 73% after 22 sessions, and psychoanalysis with 38% after 600 sessions.
The law of attraction can help you in getting what you desire more easily.
You think about the things that you desire and how you are going to get them.
By using the law of attraction, you will see that you are getting the things that you want in an easier manner and thus it will make you happier.
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By including the law of attraction perform for you it will help you encounter the people that you wish in your life.
You can realize anything you need. This is the single law that you must to keep in mind.
You must to imagine the things that make you pleased and then begin setting up how you are trying to make it take place.
Getting to be a huge accomplishment in all that you accomplish is going to be one of the most focal things that you must in life.
By having the appropriate mindset it is simple to become successful.
So what you desire most in life? Are you happy with what you are doing or with what you have right now?
Is there something that you really desire but you are not sure, how you will make it happen?
If the answer is yes then you need to apply the law of attraction to allow yourself to get what you want and desire.
You are entitled to have what you wish.
You deserve to be happy and know precisely what you wish. If you are not reaching the outcomes that you care for, so therefore it is the instance to assess what you require to do in order to be more successful.
Go in advance and decide your goals , then do a little every day that it will get you nearer to your objectives. This is how you begin using the law of attraction.
There is something splendid coming up for all in life.
One of the simplest routes to attain it is to make use of the law of attraction and render this an stimulating schedule in your life. Imagine about your objectives and how you are working to accomplish them.
What do you anticipate from harvesting life?
These are all the highest things that you must to query yourself in order to have a more contented improved life.
Happiness is the main goal in life and you should do whatever is necessary to live well and be happy.
By using the law of attraction you can change your mind to start feeling more positive as you start reaping the good results of your goals.
It is all vis--vis the way that you meditate and how you exercise it. Wishes are lived through as you would like a little extra in life and you work intensely to obtain it.
By utilizing your own authority you possess completely that you wish and lots more.
By utilizing the law of attraction it will help you realize your wishes in both your professional and personal life. Achievement is coming up in the wings for you!
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You might think your conscious mind has control of everything you do and that you consciously control your subconscious, but the truth is that the subconscious is in control.
The subconscious mind controls our thoughts and how we make connections.
If you unleash it and let it control your surroundings, then you will be happier than you would be if you allowed your environment control you.
Also, acknowledging that the subconscious is in control gives you a better understanding of yourself, others, and also do things better than when you are following your conscious mind.
What Power Does the Subconscious Mind Have?
The fact that the subconscious mind has so much control means that it is also undoubtedly powerful.
One thing you should know I that the subconscious mind is always active, day and night, whether you are busy with chores or are in a deep sleep.
With that said, there is much that the subconscious can help you achieve.
· Your prayers are answered depending on your mental acceptance of what you pray about
People that that the religious affiliation determines how one’s prayer is answered.
The truth, however, is that prayers are answered depending on how you subconsciously perceive the response while praying.
If for instance you are sick and is praying to God to receive healing and you put your body in a relaxed state and fill your subconscious with thoughts that you are in good health, chances are the body is going to heal itself and that is the answer to your prayer.
This also applies if you feed your subconscious with a special request before you fall asleep, you get a miraculous response.
· The subconscious mind has the answers to many questions and can offer solution to various questions
The subconscious mind holds answers to many questions.
For instance if you are seeking a solution to a certain problem, sending it to the subconscious mind will eventually result into an answer.
Although the solution may not come immediately, the subconscious will work on it when you are doing other things and finally present you with a workable solution.
· Your mind determines your surrounding
If you fill your mind with positive things, your life will be filled with good things and you will be happy.
Similarly, if you only thing negatively, things are bound to always go wrong.
You have the power to choose the kind of a world you want to live in by tuning your subconscious mind.
Knowing what you want to achieve in life makes it easy for you to live a happy life.
· Subconscious operates freely
It is true that your subconscious operates depending on the thoughts you feed it with.
However, it is also true that you cannot force it to do what you want.
If you spend the whole day thinking about the same thing, your willpower diminishes as time goes by and you also get exhausted.
The point is, you can plant a seed and nurture it, but you cannot force it grow.
The same case applies to your thoughts, you have the responsibility of thinking positively and hoping for the best while at the same time waiting for the subconscious to work out the solution at its own time.
Essential Steps to help Unleash your Subconscious
The subconscious mind is just a tip of enormous knowledge, memories, and wisdom that lies within you.
Knowing how to unleash it can reveal the true potential that lies within you.
The tips below will help you unlock the subconscious mind and hopefully realize your true potential.
· Always be aware of your desires and remain positive
Most people want to be in happy in life but their subconscious perceives the world as an unhappy place.
To achieve this happiness, you have to put yourself in the kind of house you want to live in, imagine driving the car of your dream and having a happy family as you always desired.
Fill these kinds of thoughts in your mind helps your subconscious find you a solution to working towards realizing the goals.
You, however need to be very cautious so as not to align your thoughts with negativity as the subconscious cannot differentiate jokes and what is serious.
· Embrace your creativity
Unlike your conscious mind that talks to you in words, the subconscious uses images and sounds.
If you can manage tapping your creative side, then you stand a better chance of interpreting your subconscious.
If you have listened to many artists, they claim that they can express themselves better through their works of art.
This is prove that they have managed to cherish and nurture their subconscious and are now understanding things better.
· Practice meditation
Meditation is one of the easiest ways to get access to your subconscious.
Serious meditation takes you deeper into your consciousness allowing you to access parts of thoughts you wouldn’t consciously.
While in meditation, you are able to concentrate on your thoughts without interruption of anger, anxiety, or life frustrations.
You reach a state of mind where different thoughts cross each other and if you analyze these carefully, they are the problems you have sent to your subconscious.
By allowing these thoughts to flow freely and regularly meditating, you will have a connection with your inner being and solutions will start unfolding.
· Always follow your instincts
When faced with a dilemma, the first solution that comes into your mind is usually your subconscious talking to you.
It happens so fast that it is hard to even realize it was there.
If you can learn to follow the first instincts that come when you are faced with a problem, you will realize that you are doing things the right way and that you are solving more problems that you could have imagined.
This is because you are listening to your subconscious and doing what it’s telling you.
And the most amazing thing is that the more you do what your instincts tell you, the more you will be aware of them.
Leaning how to unleash your subconscious unleashes a great power inside of you.
You will also discover new ways to contact your subconscious and your life will be better than when you entirely depended on your conscious mind.
All of us wants to change something about ourselves.
It is in this area where an effective personal development plan is greatly needed.
To be able to realize your plan, you need to reexamine every aspect of life.
If you think a change is what you need, you should ponder and reflect on which part of your life should help you improve on or entirely change.
- Assess yourself.
One of the ways in which you can point out the placeof life that you think needs change is by reviewing the various aspects of your life and see if they are balanced or not.
Your personal development plan requires categorizing the areas in your life into parts including career, exercise, family, education, recreation, and so on.
From this list of categories, organize them based on the importance of a particular aspect of your life.
When you assess your life, make sure you determine honestly the areas that need improvement and the areas you have to sustain.
Along with this personal evaluation are the goals that you want to achieve for an individual period.
Determine which goals in your personal development are feasible for a particular time frame.
- Act on your plan.
To realize your personal development plan, you need to couple it with determination and of course with action.
A plan will remain a plan unless paired with actual deeds.
Lay out your goals then come up with helpful strategies to attain personal development.
As an example, if you want to report to your office on time, change your sleeping patterns, sleep early, and avoid drinking caffeinated beverages or eating stimulating food like sweets and chocolates a few minutes before bedtime.
- Learn the art of discipline.
Discipline is an old virtue that has been used to achieve goals and personal development.
Even if you have decided to enact your personal development plan if it is not coupled with discipline, your actions will still fail. If you want to have a better life, then you must invest dedicated effort including the willingness to kick off things that you have been used to.
It could be hard at first, but if you are determined, you will realize that discipline is one of the life's most important values that teach you to be responsible and to take credits for your actions.
- Envision your rewards.
Create a mental picture of what you would look like or what you will become if you will adhere to the plans you made.
Make these pictures your inspiration, but in the process, you also have to understand your personal limitations.
Be kind to yourself as you take on the slow and sometimes frustrating process of self-development.
Points to Ponder
Although it is not so easy to improve your life by creating a personal improvement plan, you have to assess yourself whether this plan is achievable or not.
You have to set goals that are realistic to avoid frustrations and set you back to your old habits.
Most importantly, you have to develop a self-support system that will serve as your tool in developing yourself.
When you want to start a Personal Development Plan
It requires an accurate and precise intention followed by action.
Once you have established your goal, it should be followed with consistent behaviors which are conducive to reaching that goal.
How do you learn new ways? By educating yourself.
They can provide a strong support system.
They have knowledge of self-improvement tools and skills to teach them to you.
Whether or not you choose to use a life coach or go it alone, be sure to zero in on your strengths.
It is easy to fall prey to loss of confidence from not focusing on strengths. Learn new skills to complement your strengths and confidence.
It is amazing how learning affects over-all well being.
When you create your personal development plan, realize magic doesn't happen overnight.
It is becoming conscious of your world and how you operate within it.
Daily you must make choices that benefit your goals.
By doing so, eventually, the prize does appear.
Self-assessment of problem areas of your life is the first step.
Set realistic goals. Choose actions and behaviors which benefit the goals.
Maintain a positive support system.
And most of all, applaud yourself for wanting something different for your life.
Why Do People Need a Personal improvement Plan
The whole concept of a personal development plan relies on these words.
Men take for granted what they are given by nature, and they unconsciously assume that they know very well what they were given.
Unfortunately, life is a lot more complicated these days, and people soon discover that their only tool to succeed is themselves.
They understand that they need an action plan to move on with their life within the context of a career, education, and relationships.
They need life coaching.
People somehow imagine that an individual development plan is all it takes to get their life on the right tracks.
They also forget that a PDP is not a way to get back on the tracks, but it is a way to explore and discover the right paths you should follow.
But why do people need a personal development plan or life coaching as a matter of fact?
Well, essentially, they need such a plan because they feel that something is wrong with their life and something is not working properly for them. They do not know the answers to some simple questions:
- Do you know who you are and what you want most in your life?
- Are you aware of the unique gifts which you were personally and uniquely endowed with?
- Can you identify the obstacles which prevent you from achieving your goals?
- Are you aware that there is a difference between you and the higher you?
Most people do not know the answers to these questions.
Life coaching has the real role of identifying these answers accurately so that you can use them towards self-improvement and personal achievement in all respects of your life.
Life is simple when you know what solution to use for each particular problem but the solutions are within yourself, and unless you know yourself you will confront life with the wrong solutions, making it more difficult than it already is.
A leadership development plan is a special part of the personal development plan.
More and more people become leaders and not necessarily because they choose to.
Many assume that leadership is just something that you have or you don't have.
The fact is that even if this principle were true, how could you be sure that you don't have it unless you've looked for it?
Life coaching is the only way to find out what you can do and how far you can go in your life. Knowing your limits, your strengths and your weaknesses will reveal the path you need to take whether it is in your profession, personal life, or education.